Hello all, just another newbie popping alo g to introduce myself- im sure you get an influx at this time of year!
I’m Becca, in my late 30’s based in South Wales and I’m currently a carer for my partner. We’ve been together 10 years and his needs have gradually increased over that time to a point where i do pretty much everything for him.
I work fulltime in addition to caring for him and i absolutely love my job. Ive worked hard to get here (including learning Welsh) and while my job is usually my sanctuary, we are going through a period of change and im doing aspects i dont particularly enjoy more and more - but it is what it is.
I go through periods of really struggling with my caring responsibilities along with everything else i have to juggle (i do all life admin, shopping and the majority of the cleaning) and then my mental health takes a nose dive. I dont have a support network which is why I’m here i guess to find people who are in a similar situation.
I do love my partner but his inability to do anything (like picking up after himself, cleaning etc) is driving me bonkers! He is classed as unfit for work and receives UC and spends his days sleeping and gaming
Not sure what else to say right now other than hi, and i look forward to getting to know you all
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